Life With Payton

Payton's 1st Birthday Party!

2010-01-15T08:50:00.000-08:00

Payton walking into her party!

Payton's 1st birthday party was a lot of fun! We held her party at the Princess Tea Room in the middle of Centerville. I knew when I went looking for a venue it was the perfect spot. Everything was so cute/girly! :) It was great getting our immediate family together to celebrate Payton's 1st year! She had a great time interacting with family, opening gifts, and eating her cupcake!

Surprisingly, for many of you who've seen Payton eat, she choose not to shovel the whole entire cupcake in her mouth all at one time. Instead she so delicately picked off the icing (aka, the good part) and left the cake for the trash. It was fun to watch! I know I'm a little OCD at times, but I really wanted to stand back, enjoy the moment and let Payton eat her cupcake without me freaking out about it getting all over herself...all in all, I think I did a great job!

Anyway, decorating for her 1st party was more fun than I had imagined. I started out with the Minnie Mouse theme and ran with it! Everything I saw online, I thought "I can do that!"...and that's what I did! Most of the decorations I made...from the water bottle labels...to the Minnie Payton ornaments...to the custom DVD's for each of the grandparent...to the cupcakes! I wanted to do it all, just to make Payton's 1st birthday party EXTRA special for her!

I love my little Minnie - Payton! :)

Cupcake Tower

Personalized water bottles

Minnie Mouse ornaments

Table Setting

Birthday Dinner w/ Payton @ Bravo's

2010-01-13T08:20:00.000-08:00

Ready for dinner!

Last night, to conclude Payton's 1 birthday we took her to Bravo's for dinner. She was tired (as she only took a one hour nap during the day), but we still had a great time and she was in good spirits!

Payton & Daddy

Just chillin'!

Payton has been fighting me tooth and nail about keeping her hair bow in her hair, so my new obsession...headbands!!! Since she shockingly kept her Minnie Mouse ears on throughout her entire birthday party I thought maybe she doesn't mind them?! So, I need to get more of them (like in EVERY color - LOL!) Hey, a girl's got to accessorize, right?! :)

Btw, if anyone knows where I can find some cute headbands (so I can decorate them) let me know!!! :)

A "Friendly" Birthday Lunch

2010-01-11T12:46:00.000-08:00

Friendly's Cone Head Sundae

Today Dave & I surprised Payton and took her out for a special birthday lunch. Dave & I brainstormed on the perfect place to take her...we ended up at Friendly's! I mean who doesn't love mac & cheese, veggies and a "cone head" sundae?! :)

Dave & I always ordered cone head sundaes as kids so it only seemed appropriate we order three for each of us. Since they're only on the kids menu we told our waitress that Payton would like three of them - LOL! One original, one with peanut butter (for me) and one cone head with peanut butter and extra Reece Pieces (for Dave)!

I know this will come as a shocker to many of you, but Payton LOVED the ice cream...it was a great family lunch just in honor of our little 1 year old! :)

Payton getting ready to dive into her cone head sundae!

Minnie Mouse Par-ty!

2009-12-29T11:16:00.000-08:00

Payton's 1st birthday is quickly approaching, so needless to say I've been in over-drive planning her party. Since Payton is such a HUGE Minnie Mouse fan, it only made sense to throw her a Minnie Mouse 1st birthday party!

I just wrapped up creating, designing and printing her invites. I'm really proud of them, especially b/c the quality of my new printer the Epson 810 is incredible!

Stay tuned for more of my Minnie Mouse party ideas! :)

The Davis Sister's, TJ & Rubio

2009-12-29T10:58:00.000-08:00

(L-R) Jen Davis, Payton, Me & Melissa Mucha

Dave & I love the holidays, but not just because of spending time with family and eating unlimited amounts of food (although that's great too) but also b/c it's really the only time of year we get to see our old friends who've moved far, far away. This year we've been graced with the Davis sisters (as Mel D will always be in my heart), TJ & Rubio (and can't leave out Woody from a few weeks ago).

It's been fun catching up/hanging out with everyone! I'm SO happy they all made such a big effort not only to visit Dave & I, but to get to meet/know Payton!

Payton & Rob Rubio

Payton & Jennifer Davis

TJ, Payton & Melissa Mucha

Christmas 2009

2009-12-29T10:33:00.000-08:00

Christmas 2009

Payton's 1st Christmas was SO much fun! A lot of people told us not to spend much money or buy her many gifts b/c she wouldn't really understand. Wow, were those people WAY wrong. Honestly, I was amazed at how awesome Payton did at opening her gifts. It was so cool for Dave & I to see the excitement in her eyes (especially is she opened something that made music or lite up)!

Thank you to everyone for all the thoughtful gifts and who made Payton's 1st Christmas so special! The best gift of all though was the one that arrived WAY before Christmas on Jan. 12 of this year. I LOVED my first Christmas as a Mum Mum - as Payton calls me!

Merry Christmas everyone!!!

Payton very thoroughly unwrapping a gift

Lovin' her Little Mermaid Bike

Pink Radio Flyer Tricycle (it's ADORABLE)!!!

Dreaming of a White Christmas!

2009-12-22T09:42:00.000-08:00

Snowing at 5:30 a.m.

Although Payton's first snow day didn't snow enough to go out, play in it and make a snowman we're hopeful that we at least have one of these days this winter! Stay tuned.

Meeting Uncle Woody

2009-12-18T12:51:00.000-08:00

Not to be Debbie Downer, but today was bad/good day.

Bad b/c my cousin Mandy and her family moved to Michigan. I'm going to miss her so much! Luckily she's just a phone call, email and only three hours away!

On the other hand, one of Dave's best friends, Jon Smallwood (aka - Woody) was in town from LA. It was great to see him/catch up. It was also awesome for him to meet Payton for the first time. I think they really really hit it off! It was an especially proud moment for Woody + Dave when every time they'd say: "GO UD, Let's go UD" Payton would clap her hands/smile real big!

The Parker Family Christmas Tree!

2009-12-14T12:53:00.001-08:00

My FAVORITE Christmas movie of all time is National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation. I have to admit, I felt like last night I was in the movie! This NLCV quote sums up what my Mom envisioned our Christmas tree experience was going to be like - LOL!:

"Clark: We're kicking off our fun old fashion family Christmas by heading out into the country in the old front-wheel drive sleigh to embrace the frosty majesty of the winter landscape and select that most important of Christmas symbols."

Payton wondering what we're doing in 20 degree weather! :)

Dave wearing his Clark Griswold Bengals hat. Payton still wondering what's going on!

Payton lovin' the warmth!

Okay, so let me start from the beginning...last year my Mom decided she wanted to start a new tradition. She wanted to have her grandchildren go with her to pick out the Parker Christmas tree. Since last year, I was eight months pregnant I opted out. This year it was a must, we were "in!"

Dave, Payton & I got bundled up for the occasion. It was nothing short of comical. On the way to the Christmas tree lot Dave & I recited quotes from Christmas Vacation and sang "Deck the Halls" NLCV style. Singing:

Deck the halls with boughs of holly

Fa la la la la, la la la la.

Tis the season to be jolly

Fa la la la la, la la la la.

Take it Payton (silence)
Fa la la la la, la la la la.

When we arrived the lot was dark, cold and muddy. Dave, Payton, Stacey, Ross, Mom & I opted for the wagon to take us to the Christmas trees (Bill and Ryan decided to walk - smart choice). As the tress were only about 10 steps from where we began (I was wondering why the wagon driver looked at us funny). Mom found her "perfect" Christmas tree quickley (thank God)!

After all the commotion (that's just too lengthy to describe in detail in a blog), we left and all headed to BW3's for a much needed beer! :)

Merry Christmas!

2009-12-14T12:45:00.000-08:00

Payton's first encounter w/ Santa (as you can see, she's not so sure about him)!

All of Dave's aunt's and uncle's came in town this past weekend to celebrate Christmas early. Saturday night, we all had a wonderful dinner at the Schindler household. It was fun seeing Payton interacting with everyone! She had a blast!!!

Sunday morning, before everyone left we all went to brunch at the NCR Country Club and Santa was there! Payton wasn't really feeling him, as it usually takes her a bit to warm up to new people. This was the best picture I could get...hopefully in due time, Payton will realize how cool Santa is and will learn to love him!

Payton + Great-Grandma Hoying

2009-12-07T12:07:00.000-08:00

Great-Grandma Hoying, Payton and Joann

Grandma Hoying came to Dayton to visit this past weekend. Luckily, Payton was able to spend lots of QT with her! Saturday the Mr. & Mrs. Schindler, Grandma Hoying, Dave & Payton all went to the UD flyers game. Sunday, before she left we all had breakfast at one of our favorite places - First Watch!

Grandma Hoying kept saying "Payton is a delight!"

Thankful!

2009-11-30T11:59:00.000-08:00

Happy belated Thanksgiving everyone!

Payton + Ross playing

Our 1st Thanksgiving with Payton was awesome! I feel like all we did was eat, but hey isn't that the point?!

Dave & I couldn’t feel more blessed to have Payton, our amazing families and wonderful friends in our lives!

Turkey Day @ Ms. Tammy's!

2009-11-20T06:45:00.000-08:00

Payton's "I'm Thankful For..." turkey.
This couldn't be more accurate as she LOVES everything on each turkey feather (+ her blankie!)

Look how little Payton's hands/feet are!

Let me preface this entry by saying, “I love Ms. Tammy”! Tammy is Payton’s daycare provider and she’s definitely the best! Before I had Payton we knew she was "the one". The one we trusted most to take care of Payton while Dave & I were at work. My sister, Stacey introduced us, as my nephew Ross has been going there since he was just a few months old. Tammy takes care of six kids (including Payton) throughout the week: Sydney – 5.5, Luke – 4, Evan – 3, Oliver – 1, Ross – 1 (alomst 2) + Payton – 10 months! She’s a saint (and honestly, there days I wonder how she keeps her sanity! :)

Ok – just had to get my Ms. Tammy plug in! :)

Picking up Payton from Ms. Tammy's after work is one of the highlights of my day! Every day, I’m SO excited to give her a BIG hug/kiss! I miss her a lot during the days. It’s always a surprise to see what Payton will be doing once I arrive. Most days she’s bouncing to music in her doorway jumperoo, sitting on Tammy’s lap, rolling on the floor and/or playing with Luke, Sydney or Ross. Payton LOVES her friends at Ms. Tammy’s!

Some days there’s an added bonus – a craft project! Tammy is super creative and wonderful at thinking of creative crafts to have each child make for the holidays! They’re all SO precious!!!

For Thanksgiving Payton and the other kids made hand/feet and "What I'm Thankful For..." turkey's.

Did the Mean Nurse Hurt You???

2009-11-19T09:06:00.000-08:00

Payton before the finger prick

So Payton’s 9 month check-up wasn’t as wonderful as some check-ups in the past. We usually love going to them, as it’s amazing to hear the progress she’s made and how much she’s grown. However, today was a MAJOR let down.

Like usual, I checked Payton in at the receptionist desk. This time, they asked me to fill out a 5-pg questionnaire about Payton. (some 9 month thing). Some questions were a little odd – i.e., Does your child push their arm through a sleeve when getting dressed? Can your child pick up a string? Etc. I’m sure they’re all very valid questions, but the annoyance of a little boy coughing who was sitting next to Payton was driving me CRAZY!

After Payton’s name was called we walked into an empty examining room to wait for Dr. Bockhorn. In the meantime, a nurse took all of Payton’s measurements. She’s now 18 lbs. 14 oz. 29 ½ inches long! Shockingly, Payton is in the 75% - 90% length wise! From what I understand, this doesn’t mean much as the best time to gage height is between 1-2 years of age.

Anyway…next, walked in Dr. Bockhorn. She was prepared to test Payton’s mobile/social skills, but when Dr. Bockhorn walked in the room and Payton immediately started waving/clapping Dr. Bockhorn said Payton’s social skills were “off the charts!” LOL. On the other hand, since Payton wasn’t able to go from the sitting position to standing (by holding onto an object – i.e., table) she’s a step behind mobility-wise. I’m not concerned, as I know Payton will do things at her own time!

After the testing, Dr. Bockhorn requested Payton get her last flu shot (as babies under 12 months need 2) and a finger prick to test to see if she’s anemic. A different nurse from earlier walked into our room and gave Payton her flu shot. Payton didn’t even cry. Next, the finger prick (which I thought would have been the less problematic of the two), Payton SCREAMED – “MAMA”!!! Tears started streaming down her face. It was the SO sad!!! It’s the most upset I’ve EVER seen Payton - NO LIE! As many of you know, Payton isn’t even close to being as over dramatic as her me, so her reaction COMPLETELY through me off guard!

Ok, so here’s the worse part of it all…it wasn’t that Payton was upset/crying (although I HATED it), but her finger bled for 2.5 hours after the prick! It was so odd. For some reason it wasn’t clotting. I didn’t know what to do. After several conversations with Tammy and the phone nurse I was getting more and more irate! I really think the nurse who pricked Payton either went too deep and/or pricked her too hard. I'm pissed!!!

9 Month Pictures by Priscilla Baierlein

2009-11-16T08:21:00.000-08:00

Catching Up!

2009-11-11T08:54:00.000-08:00

Payton Caroline Schindler - 10 Months

Well, I still can't believe it's been 10 months since my last post. Life has changed a lot from my days of journaling about being pregnant. I'm now officially a Mommy...and loving every minute. Payton is amazing!!! Dave and I couldn't be prouder parents.

A couple of days ago I stumbled upon my old pregnancy blog (Schindler Baby). It was fun taking a trip down memory lane and reading old blogs. I also came across some old “drafts” that never got officially published. One I specifically found quite humorous, it was titled - “Walking Zombies”:

Payton is now three weeks old and over the past week Dave & I have really been working hard getting Payton on a schedule. It's difficult with her being so little, but we're trying. Being sleep deprived is definitely catching up with us. If we look exhausted, it's b/c we ARE! Unfortunately Payton has her days and nights mixed up and although I've been doing my best to keep her awake during the days while I'm off on maternity leave, it's been difficult. Sometimes I think a tornado could blow through our house and Payton still wouldn't wake up! At night, she's fussy and doesn't want to sleep. I’ve began singing “Just To See You Smile” by Tim McGraw when she cries and it seems to calm her – I think she likes it. Anyway, hopefully sleep habits change soon...

Thankfully we've come a long way since the sleepless nights! :)

I must admit, I've missed blogging. Journaling has always been a fun and creative outlet for me. I loved tracking/sharing my pregnancy experience. It's fun hearing friends who are pregnant now are reading my blog to know what's in store for them! :) But most of all, my hope is that Payton will one day read it all. I want her to know how blessed and excited I was to become her Mommy and how much I love her now that she’s come into our world!

Unfortunately, I can’t go back and journal all the milestones Payton has reached thus far, but I'm going to do my best to hit the main highlights:

Janurary 15, 2009 - Payton came home from hospital
January 21, 2009 (Payton’s 10 day check –up) – Admitted into Children’s Medical Center for fast heart beat (250 beats/minute)

March - Began sleeping through the nights (YEAH!!!)

April 6, 2009 - First day at Ms. Tammy's
April 27, 2009 - Payton's first manicure (sorry had to include that one!)
May 10, 2009 - Celebrated first Mother’s Day
May 17, 2009 - Payton was baptized into the Catholic Church

May 23, 2009 - First Reds game

June 9, 2009 - Started jibber-jabbing

June 16, 2009 - First roll: front to back

June 21, 2009 - Celebrated first Father’s Day

July 10, 2009 - Ate whole jar of level 1 - peas

July 27, 2009 - Ate whole jar of level 2 - carrots

August 31, 2009 - Said "Mama" for the first time

September - Began sitting up on her own

September 14, 2009 - said "Da-Da" for the first time

October 20, 2009 - Learned how to wave hi/bye!

October 30, 2009 - Started clapping (i.e., preparing for UD games - LOL!)

November 3, 2009 - Payton's first UD game!

November 10, 2009 - Stood up while playing with learning table

Keep checking back for more Life With Payton updates, stories and recent pictures!

Sneak Peak of Payton's Newborn Pictures...

2009-01-22T11:38:00.000-08:00

Payton's Birth Story...

2009-01-17T19:47:00.000-08:00

Payton Caroline Schindler

Payton Caroline Schindler was born on Monday, January 12 at 10:08 PM. Here is a summary of the events that took place that day....

THE AMNIO

The amnio was a scary process. Dave and I arrived at Miami Valley Hospital around 7:00 AM on Monday, January 12. We checked into an office on the first floor of the hospital. A nurse did one final ultrasound before a doctor, whose name I still do not know, performed the amnio. He used the ultrasound to figure out where Payton was positioned, and then stuck a long needle into my stomach to draw out amniotic fluid. The scary part of the amnio had arrived....Payton moved...and the doctor accidentally stuck Payton several times with the needle....very painful to watch as you could see it all unfold on the ultrasound monitor. The doctor became visibly frustrated, and this made Dave and I extremely nervous. He had to withdraw the needle and try a second time in a different area. This time, the test was a success, and after they performed a "stress test" on Payton that monitored her heart rate while at rest and while moving, we received the results.....Payton's lungs were fully developed, and today was now set to "officially be THE day"...

THE LABOR

After receiving the results, we headed up to Dr. Horlacher's office on the 4th floor of The Berry Building in MVH. I was SO excited!!! Dr. Horlacher met us in the office, offered a quick synopsis of how I was going to be induced, and sent us on our way to check in. We grabbed our suitcase from the car, and were admitted to our room at 11:00 AM. Once we were settled into the delivery room, our nurse quickly administered my medication to induce labor. The medication sent me into labor around noon...much quicker than expected. Dr. Horlacher stopped in periodically to check on how my cervix was dialating. Once I was dialated to a "4", Dr. Horlacher attempted to break my water. This was unbearably painful to the point where he had to abort the plan. Meanwhile, my contractions continued to increase in frequency and intensity, and soon became unbearable. The anesthesiologists then arrived and at my request, they administered the epidural. Soon, I was not feeling anything below my waist. Once the epidural had completely taken effect, Dr. Horlacher successfully broke my water. Extreme contractions also continued...and they would come and go without me knowing. I was completely numb and remarkably comfortable, and I remained this way while visiting with both my family and Dave's family until around 8:30 pm when Dr. Horlacher announced that "it was time to start pushing"...

THE PUSHING

The "pushing" part of labor was much more organized and structured than I had imagined. Dr. Horlacher gave instructions while a nurse held my left leg and Dave held my right leg. He was the best husband ever as he was also in charge of giving me water in between "pushes" and taking birth pictures when Payton was being delivered. I didn't shout curse words at him like you see in the movies...but I did have to hit him on the hand once when he wasn't holding my leg at the correct angle...:) The pushing portion required me to give more effort towards pushing Payton out than I had ever given to anything in my life. The nurse would count to "ten" while Dr. Horlacher coached me through when to push and how hard to push. Dave chimed in with words of encouragement to keep me motivated to continue giving it 150%. The pushing lasted 10 seconds at a time. Every time a contraction begins, I would start pushing for the ten-second interval, and then would get a small break lasting between 10 seconds and a minute...depending on when the next contraction began. Towards the end of the first hour of pushing, Dr. Horlacher told us that Payton's head was now visible....a full head of thick dark hair!! THE VACUUM Once I had pushed for around an hour and 15 minutes, Dr. Horlacher explained that Payton's head was not going to be able to get past my pelvic bone. He asked us if it would be ok if he used "the vacuum" and added that "if it were his own child, he would opt to use the vacuum". We agreed, and he took out a tool that looked like a toilet plunger with a pump on the end of it. The plunger portion is attached to the baby's head while the "pump" at the other side is used to increase or decrease the suction of the plunger part on the head of the baby. Dr. Horlacher attached the vacuum to Payton, but had some trouble moving her through the birth canal. Twice the vacuum "popped" off of her head, which was somewhat unnerving. Finally, he was able to navigate her past the pelvic bone, and after a few more pushes, she was delivered.

THE ARRIVAL

When Payton was delivered at 10:08 PM, her heart rate suddenly plummeted and the Intensive Care Unit rushed into the room. It was one final moment of chaos which briefly delayed the euphoria that surrounds the birth of your child. Luckily, Payton's heart rate recovered and the Intensive Care Doctors did not have to take any action. Dave cut the cord (while I snapped a picture), and Payton was taken up to be cleaned and weighed. Payton Caroline Schindler was finally here...all 6 lbs., 5 oz. of her...and she was beautiful.

My Family

5 minutes before "go time"!

Proud Daddy...

First time holding Payton...

Payton getting measured - 19 inches

Payton's first hair wash...

Payton Eve!

2009-01-11T18:53:00.000-08:00

I think everyone already knows how excited I am to become a Mom and meet Payton for the first time tomorrow. I have been documenting my experience of being pregnant for roughly 250 days and it's crazy to believe after tomorrow the experience will be over. I'm not nervous to give birth. I know I have the best Dr, wonderful husband and awesome family/friends supporting me and wishing me well. As you all know, I'm the type of person to possibly be a bit over dramatic and overly anxious at times. Surprisingly, I am not feeling either of those (yet). More than anything, I'm a little sad. I'm sad I'll never feel Payton's tiny hands, feet & body move around inside me. I'm sad I won't feel her regular nightly hiccups, however I know life with Payton will be amazing. It will be the most incredible experience of my life to watch/see her grow!

Maternity Session...

2009-01-09T19:25:00.000-08:00

Our maternity pictures are complete. Thank you Cilla for doing such an awesome job and capturing this special time in our lives! To view all of our pictures click on the link below, select Access Gallery (top right hand corner of page) and type in the code: payton.

http://www.priscillabphotography.com/photocart/

Cilla will be taking newborn pictures of Payton on Sunday - Jan. 18...we're looking forward to it! :)

Natalie & Dave are going to be parents on Monday!!!

2009-01-07T19:20:00.000-08:00

Today I'm exactly 37 weeks. Unintentionally, I have taken a few days off from blogging (time has just slipped away). However, recently there have been a couple major Payton developments that I wanted to share. First, Dave & I found out on Monday that I'm going to be induced in a week (Monday, Jan. 12). We're thrilled!!! We can't wait for Payton to arrive in just 5 days!!! Secondly, Dr. Horlacher has insisted I stop working and relax before Payton arrives. When he suggested I do so it wasn't a total surprise to me. I knew I was fighting the inevitable when at my last appt. (about a week and a half ago) he wanted to write me off work due to the strain she's physically taking on my body with carrying her so low, getting sick to my stomach and having contractions. As usual, I was being stubborn and wasn't ready to give into his request b/c I had some essential work items left to complete. What can I say...I'm such a loyal LN employee! :)

Today was my first day of maternity leave. It was strange not being at work, but nice to stay home and rest. Today I think I asked Dave approximately five times what the date was (LOL!). It's difficult to keep track of the days when I'm not continuously looking at my calendar to check out my "to-do list", see what meetings I have, etc. Just to let everyone know, I am no longer able to log into my LN account. If you need to get in touch with me please either call my cell phone, text or send me a message via Facebook...I will be checking it regularly. Also, please keep checking my blog for future Payton updates/pictures! :)

More To Cross Off Our To-Do List...

2009-01-03T22:14:00.000-08:00

So...today was an ultra productive day. Not only did Ryan (my brother-in-law) & Dave install our car bases and assemble our travel system, but they also set up Payton's pack & play and swing. It was really nice of Ryan to help us...thank you Ryan! While the guys were busy with Payton's new essentials/toys Stacey & I ran to Macy's/Babies R Us. After a busy day we went to Champps for dinner. It was fun hanging out with Stacey, Ryan & Ross. During dinner we discussed the different changes Ross has brought to Stacey & Ryan lives, as Payton will bring to ours. It's interesting to hear other parents perspectives. Yes, I know Payton will change Dave & I in a way we could never imagine, but it's such an exciting change.

After we got home from dinner, and as I was routinely was taking Oscar/Rudi outside and feeding them dinner. Dave went into Payton's room, took out her stroller and pushed it around the house. He said, "I'm taking my daughter for a walk". It was cute! Haha! :)

WTF?!?!

2009-01-03T18:27:00.001-08:00

OMG! So, did anyone catch 20/20 last night? If so, I'm sure you'll know what I'm about to discuss. If not, it was about birth orgasms, women who prefer at home births, dolls made to look like real babies & breastfeeding: how old is too old. Sidenote, I think all the woman on last nights episode are CRAZY!!! First of all, out of all the birthing classes and Moms I've talked to no one has every mentioned the birthing process as being "orgasmic". The "home birthing" segment, ok...it wasn't that strange, but the 40-year old woman buying a real looking baby (for a few hundred - $1500 a baby )??? Are you serious?! Lastly & most shockingly, I couldn't believe a woman who was still nursing her 8-year old daughter. My personal opinion is if your child can ask for "it" they're too old to nurse. Again, that's just me.

Sorry, hopefully I haven't offended anyone. Just wanted to give/vent my two cents! :)

Preparing for Payton's Arrival...

2009-01-02T15:44:00.000-08:00

Dave & I have been working hard over the past week preparing for Payton to come home. We can't wait!!! Depending on my next Dr's appointment on Monday, Jan. 5 and the amniocentesis I'm having on Monday, Jan. 12 Payton could come home about 2.5 weeks early. Everything is ok with Payton & I, however Dr. Horlacher recommended possibly inducing me due to the strain she's taking on my body. I'm constantly fighting gravity, sick to my stomach and having contractions here and there. According to Dr. Horlacher I should have stopped working about a week ago to take it easy, but I feel the need to wrap up some necessary tasks and completely train my back up while I'm out on maternity leave. What can I say, I'm a loyal LN employee! :)

Last weekend Dave & I (along with my Mom & step-dad) completed Payton's nursery. It's nice having her room done...now all we need is her! Tomorrow my sister Stacey, Ryan & Ross are coming over to help us install the car seat bases in each of our cars and assemble Payton's stroller. It's amazing how official and real things seem as we complete our last agenda items.

Happy New Year!!!

2009-01-01T10:57:00.000-08:00

NYE - Times Square

Happy New Year everyone! I wish you all much success & happiness in 2009!

Nursery Complete...

2008-12-29T21:03:00.000-08:00

Today we completed Payton's nursery. Dave said, "it's SO surreal!" I couldn’t agree more. On different occasions we've caught each other walking into her room and just sitting/looking at everything. When I think back to what that room was a year ago it's hard to imagine it was "baby blanket" green (blah!) and just our storage/junk room. Now it's actually a room...a room for our daughter who will be here any day! We can't wait & truly feel so blessed.

Must See: Marley & Me

2008-12-27T07:54:00.000-08:00

Today Dave & I saw the movie "Marley & Me" based off the true story/bestselling book by John Grogan. I can honestly say it was one of the BEST movies I've EVER seen! If you're a dog lover or especially a dog owner you will be able to completely relate to this movie. Almost every scene reminded me of the difficult times of training Oscar & Rudi and/or the unconditional love they give us daily. The movie takes you through Marley's life from beginning to end. As difficult as the last 30 minutes are to watch, it was an unbelievable movie and an important reminder of how much I love my boys!!!

"A dog doesn't care if you're rich or poor. Give him your heart and he'll give you his".

http://marleyandmemovie.com/

The Best Gift EVER!!!

2008-12-26T11:02:00.000-08:00

This year for Christmas Dave gave me the best gift EVER...the Roomba 562!!! I ABSOLUTELY love it. It's perfect for people like me, people who have OCD! J I know Dave was afraid of being "that guy" who gave his wife a vacuum cleaner, but it's anything but just an ordinary vacuum cleaner. It's amazing!!! It has the capability to preset the timer (like an alarm clock), undock itself from the charging station, vacuum our floors/carpets and redock itself. It will be such a nice feeling to leave the house and know when I return our floors will be cleaned! With Payton on the way, I know Dave just wanted to help save me some cleaning time since he knows I'm a clean-a-holic! It's the BEST gift ever!!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qo5lPlG1Khw

Merry Christmas!

2008-12-25T09:13:00.000-08:00

Our Christmas Tree

I hope everyone has a very Merry Christmas & a happy new year!

35 Weeks and Counting...

2008-12-24T06:03:00.000-08:00

Today I'm 35 weeks pregnant! I can't believe it. Time has flown by so quickly and my body has changed SO much in such a short period of time. Yesterday Dave & I had another Dr.'s appointment w/ Dr. Horlacher. Payton is currently measuring approximately 20 inches and 5 ½ lbs! I asked Dr. Horlacher if Payton's head has dropped any further and he said "it’s impossible w/o you being in labor." He also said that she is at the point where a baby would normally be after 5 hours of labor. It is wonderful my labor time could theoretically be shorter, but it has been rough on me physically carrying her so low. I truly feel like I'm fighting gravity everyday. On the bright side, Dr. Horlacher said she's doing excellent. It gave both Dave & I a wonderful sense of relief and a nice early Christmas gift!

Pre-Sneak Peak...(34 Weeks)

2008-12-17T17:57:00.000-08:00

On Sunday afternoon Dave & I went to Lexington, KY to have some maternity pictures taken. As I’ve previously blogged about, my friend Cilla from EKU started her own photography company and I knew from the get go I wanted her to capture this special time in our lives. Today, Cilla sent me a few pre-sneak peak pictures. I absolutely LOVE her style and can’t wait to see the rest of our pictures including the ones w/ Dave AND I (since he had just a little bit to do with this whole journey) - LOL! I’ll be adding add’l pictures to my blog as I get them, so stay tuned!!!

Happy 1st Birthday Ross!

2008-12-15T19:40:00.000-08:00

Ready for his cupcake!

The Bales Family

Ross & Uncle Dave

Touring "The Valley"...

2008-12-10T09:21:00.000-08:00

Last night Dave & I took a basic tour of Miami Valley hospital where Payton will be delivered. Our guide showed us a birthing room, post-partum room, the nursery and the natural birthing area. Thankfully the tour was only an hour. Dave & I are certainly no strangers to MVH. My sister Stacey & cousin Mandy delivered Ross & Carter there and my Dr’s office is there as well. The tour wasn’t a complete waste of time. Dave & I learned two important tidbits of information 1). Where he should drop me off when I’m in labor and 2). They have cinnamon rolls for breakfast every morning – LOL! :)

Payton's First Audience...

2008-12-08T18:10:00.000-08:00

Payton's Face (you can even see her little eye lashes)

This week I'll be 33 weeks pregnant. Today Dave & I had an ultrasound & Dr.'s appointment. Most people only have one ultrasound (typically at 20 weeks), but b/c I’m carrying Payton so low (and b/c we wanted her grandparents to see Payton) Dr. Horlacher graciously enabled us to have an add’l appointment. It was nice having our parents there this time to share in the fun of seeing her move and watch her little heart beat! I must admit, I was shocked at how much she had grown since our last ultrasound 13 weeks prior. I was also shocked once I saw her ultrasound pictures. At 20 weeks we could make out everything perfectly (i.e., her hands, feet, eyes, etc.), this time it was way more difficult to tell what was what. I later found out the larger a baby gets, the more difficult features are to see. Regardless, it was still amazing to see her! We even saw her little mouth moving like she was talking to us. Of course, Dave made several jokes about her loving to talk just like her Mommy! It wasn’t a shocker to me, I knew a baby conceived by Dave & I could never be quiet or shy – LOL! :)

Payton's Lips & Nose

Payton's Hair

Nursery...

2008-12-08T10:23:00.000-08:00

Payton's Nursery

Ok, here's Payton's nursery (so far). Luckily Dave & I only have a few more things left to complete (i.e., hang Payton's wall letters, put up her pink/brown roman shade, and find a bookcase for her room). It's quasi against my religion to show something unfinished, but since so many friends keep asking to see her room here's a peak! :)

Note: more pictures will be added later.

Gotta love pink/brown!

Close-up of Payton's crib & rocking horse

Payton's closet

Four baby showers later...

A Baby Shower For Payton...

2008-12-06T18:52:00.000-08:00

Invitation

Today my mother-in-law Joann, Dave's Aunt Pam & Aunt Marty threw a wonderful baby shower for Payton & I. It was a great time. It was really nice spending time with family as well as parents of friends. After everyone arrived we mingled for a bit and sat down for lunch. Lunch was delicious! We had chicken crapes, veggies, cake & cookies. The room was decorated adorably with flower centerpieces, stuffed animals & balloons.

Each gift had a pre-placed number for guests to play BINGO while I opened gifts. In addition to Bingo, each person gave me a special piece of advice prior to me opening their gift. I thought this was such a clever/creative way to keep everyone entertained during this time.

Thank you's...I have a LOT of them. Thank to my mother-in-law Joann, Marty & Pam for putting on such a wonderful shower me. I had a GREAT time. You all made me feel incredibly special!!! Thank you to everyone for your generous gifts. Last but not least, thank you to my wonderful husband for meeting me after my shower to help us get everything packed up/taken home.

Centerpiece

Dave & I plus hosts (left to right: Marty, Pam & Joann)

Mrs. Schindler, Mrs. Vichich, Mrs. Lekan, Mrs. Bayer, me, Mrs. Orosz & Mrs. Benick

The Schindler's

Dave Hijacked My Blog...

2008-12-03T18:07:00.000-08:00

This dunk has only been performed by two people...ever...in history....Me while playing for Team Hung (2001, UD Intramurals) and Chris Wright on Saturday against Marquette...

Payton experienced her first of many University of Dayton Flyer victories against ranked opponents on Saturday night when UD treated Marquette like their red-headed step children and waxed them by 14 points. The game was never really close as Chris Wright flew out of gravity's reach several times and the Flyers proved that they are legitimate Final Four contenders in 2008-2009. The Xavier Musketeers were reportedly urinating down their legs while witnessing the Flyer domination. I mentioned to Natalie that Xavier was probably watching this game and Payton flipped the "bird" against the inside of Natalie's belly immediately upon hearing the "X" word. That's my girl.

Anyway, as I was saying...I feel bad for any team who has the misfortune of playing against the Flyers this year. Last night Troy was the victim. Dayton took it easy on Troy last night and decided to only beat them by 17 points. The referees all bet against Dayton, taking Troy and 20 points. They managed to control the game enough to win their bet...although on a couple of the bullsh!t fouls they called last night against us, I heard Payton shout her first cus words from the womb in disbelief and disagreement. She's already a good fan and she has a very good understanding of the game of basketball.

That's my girl....and that's why her name rhymes with Dayton (it's Dayton with a "P" instead of the "D"...notice how we didn't name her Peastern Pentucky...I run the show in this house!!!)

Go Flyers.

Surprise Visit...

2008-12-01T21:56:00.000-08:00

As many of you are aware, the past few days have not been so great for Payton & I. I think my so-called "comfortable" days of being pregnant have come to a screeching halt. This morning I called Dr. Horlacher to inform him of how I have been feeling and the nurse I spoke with said Dr. Horlacher wanted to see me. I arrived at his office in not the best of spirits, but Dr. Horlacher did what he does best (besides deliver babies of course) and made me laugh immediately. He walked right into the examining room, pulled out some birth control pills and said “if you would have taken these, you wouldn’t be in this situation!” I busted out laughing and said “too late!!!” :)

In today’s surprise visit we learned a lot. Dave & I learned that Payton’s head has dropped (meaning it’s “engaged”) at 0 position (5 cm from the vaginal opening). The engagement stage doesn't usually happen until week 36, so she's about four weeks ahead of schedule. Since she's in “ready position” my job over the next four weeks (until I’m at least 36 weeks) is to take it easy so she doesn’t come before it’s time. It’s quite uncomfortable (as I’m sure people can tell by the way I now walk/move around), but I can't complain. I’ve been very blessed over the past 7 ½ months.

Regularly Dave teases me that Payton must have got my patience! – LOL! :)

Happy Thanksgiving!

2008-11-27T22:55:00.000-08:00

O-H-I-O

2008-11-23T17:13:00.000-08:00

Yesterday was the OSU vs. Michigan game! Every year it's a big deal and this year was no exception. For the game we went over to my cousin Mandy’s house to watch it with her husband Josh, the girls (Chloe & Riley) and little Carter. It was fun hanging out with them…there’s never a dull moment at the Napier household! :)

Mandy & I had a brilliant idea to have everyone put on their OSU gear for a family picture. It took Riley a little
convincing, but she finally folded.

The buckeyes won 42 -7...GO BUCKS!

LexisNexis Shower...

2008-11-19T19:17:00.000-08:00

Today my teammates at work threw a baby shower for me. For lunch we went to one of my favorite restaurants, Bravo. I love, love, love, love, love their salmon salad! So guess what I had for lunch?! LOL. My team surprised me by inviting Dave to attend. It was nice having him there. Jessica & Mica planned a fun game to play. We had to guess what the top baby names were in 1979, the year I was born and 1978, the year I was born. Although, I didn't win I did significantly better than I did on Sunday (@ Jessica's shower). My teammates were SO generous! They bought us our car seat base, mirror, seat cover & sun shades. Payton is now set for the car!

A few additional friends/co-workers decided to forgo chipping in on the group gift and ventured out on their own. Let's just say they hooked Payton up in the clothes department. No lie, I think Payton now has more clothes than me. Shocker, I know!

Special thanks to Jessica & Mica for coordinating the shower. Also, thank you to Vickie for the awesome homemade butter cream icing/chocolate cake...it was delicious!

November Showers...

2008-11-16T22:34:00.000-08:00

Cupcakes - vanilla frosting w/ strawberry cake

Today one of my best friends, Jessica Steiner hosted a baby shower for me. The shower was a great time! For lunch Jess made vegetable skewers, Caesar salad in phyllo cups, chicken salad sandwiches, shrimp cocktail, deviled eggs, cheese ball & a veggie tray. Everything was delicious!

After lunch we played "Pregnancy Trivia" with a twist. Instead of us guessing the correct answers, we guessed what Dave thought the answers would be (Jess had Dave take the test days earlier). Let's just say it put a whole new spin on things - LOL! Shockingly, there was a three way tie between my sister Stacey & step-Mom, Tanya & Jessica's Mom, Chery for first place! Out of 16 questions, I only guessed 8 right! Oh well....it was fun!

Jessica definitely put a lot of thought into all the details. I about died when I found out she made just about everything from scratch (including personalized water bottles, brown/pink candy wrappers, & flower pen party favors). Jessica's new nickname is "junior Martha" after her idol Martha Stewart (and rightfully so)! She definitely deserves the title...haha!

Thank you to everyone for attending. I had a great time & it meant a lot you all could make it. Also, a very special thank you to Jess for hosting such a great shower...you're the best!!!

Personalized "Payton" water bottles

Party favors - Flower Pens

Lunch

Breastfeeding Class Experience...

2008-11-12T18:12:00.000-08:00

Last night Dave & I attended the breastfeeding class I signed us up for weeks ago. When I called to schedule, the lady I spoke with told me to bring my "support person". I assumed that person would be Dave. However, I was wrong. When Dave & I arrived at class last night I realized why the lady I spoke with didn't say "husband" or "significant other". Glancing over the room, most woman brought there best friends/Moms. There were only three guys in the room (including Dave). There was nothing we could do at this point - Dave was stuck.

I must admit I had a different impression of what breastfeeding class would be like. I've heard some horror stories, but luckily none were true and there was nothing to fear. Our instructor was super nice and very informative. Julie, our childbirth instructor was there as well to help assist with questions.

There are a lot of myths surrounding the topic of breastfeeding, so it was nice to find out the truth. Not all women can breastfeed for several different reasons, but I'm going to try. Originally, I was pretty against it. After listening to all the positives (and even some of the inconveniences), I want to do everything I can to provide the healthiest life for Payton!

A Glimpse Of What's To Come...

2008-11-11T21:22:00.000-08:00

While getting ready for work this morning I had my first Braxton Hicks contractions. It was such a stange feeling - it really through me off guard. I yelled for Dave & sat on the bed for a couple of minutes. It quickly passed (only lasting about 4-5 seconds), but it definitely gave me a slight glimpse of what's to come!

Austin, Texas...

2008-11-10T20:01:00.000-08:00

Real World House - Austin, TX.

This weekend Dave was in Austin, TX. One of his best friends, Mike Krutz got married there. Dave has known Krutz since his UD baseball days (and was also a groomsman in our wedding). I was bummed I couldn't make the trip, but didn't want to risk being too far away from home in my third trimester. However, I heard (and by checking out the pictures can tell) it was a GREAT time and an unbelievably beautiful wedding.

As hard as it was to be away from Dave (even for just a few short days), it was nice to spend a lot of time with my family. I definitely stayed busy and Stacey & Mandy were great about calling me to see how I was doing and inviting me to do stuff with them. I got a lot of Christmas shopping done while Dave was away. I know it might seem extremely early to shop, but I wanted to get a head start so I don't have to run around when I'm super "LARGE and in charge!".

Below are some pictures from this weekend. Thanks Woody for forwarding them along to me. However, I believe I'm still waiting to see a video of you dancing - LOL!

Reception - Four Seasons

Mr. & Mrs. Mike Krutz (+ Woody, Dave & Rubio)

Hanging out with the groom

The guys sober - yeah right!

Last ones on the dance floor

Dave leaving to come home to Payton & I

100% Chance of Showers...UPDATE!

2008-11-06T22:45:00.000-08:00

An add'l shower has been scheduled. Thank you to my mother-in-law, Joann Schindler for throwing a baby shower for me. This event will be held on December 6. I am really looking forward to it & seeing everyone!

A Historical Day...

2008-11-05T18:24:00.000-08:00

Running Around Like a Mad Woman...

2008-11-04T21:48:00.000-08:00

Today was a crazy busy day - I'm exhausted. Not only was today election day, but this morning I had my 7 month check-up that included a glucose test. I should have my test results back sometime before Friday. I'm praying I don't have gestational diabetes. That would definitely suck! Thankfully Dr. Horlacher said everything is going great with Payton & I. Her heart beat is normal and he said as long I'm still feeling great he has no concerns. In today's appt. Dr. Horlacher lightly pressed around on my stomach and said he felt her head. I was like: "No way, I want to feel it!" He placed my hands right on it...I could feel something hard/round. It was SO cool! I asked Dave if he wanted to feel it. Originally he was a little hesitant (b/c he thought it could hurt Payton), but eventually he got to feel it too!

After work I completed my civic duty and voted. Luckily I only had to stand in line for about five minutes. I got in and out of there quickly. Good thing because I had plans tonight.

Jon Smallwood (aka - Woody) is in Dayton tonight from LA. I cooked dinner for the for Dave, Woody & I. I made the guys and myself a nice home cooked meal...lasagna, rolls & chocolate chip cookies! I even pre-called Woody a couple of weeks ago so he could decide what we had for dinner (since I know he doesn't get many home cooked meals living in LA). It was great catching up with him. He's a great guy and always makes me laugh. I miss all our friends that live far away from us and wish we could see everyone more often, but that's life I guess! After dinner Dave & Woody went to do what they love to do best when they're around each other...BOWL! They love bowling for money and acting like they're in the PBA - LOL! Well I'm pooped and off to bed - g'night!

Entering Into My Thrid Trimester...

2008-11-03T07:47:00.000-08:00

Today starts my third trimester. I seriously can't believe how fast time has gone and how blessed I've been throughout my pregnancy. I've felt great, despite some minor aches/pains of my body changing. Payton is now measuring roughly 16 inches in length and 2.5 pounds. Recently she has learned how to blink, cough, and suck intensely. Makes sense why I've been feeling more movement recently - she's learning new things daily!

Good news. According to What To Expect, babies born this week (though premature) have an "excellent prognosis" because their lungs are almost fully matured. Sheww, now I can breathe easier!

Tomorrow Dave & I have our 7 month check-up with Dr. Horlacher. As always, I'll keep everyone posted with what he has to say!

FINALLY...a W!

2008-11-02T18:18:00.000-08:00

Today Dave & I attended our second Bengals game of the season. We had great seats, awesome weather and best of all we were there to witness the Bengals first win of the season against Jacksonville (21-19). Payton was cracking me up throughout the game. Every time she heard loud music she'd start kicking/moving (almost to the beat)...it was adorable! WHO-DEY!!!

Another Thing To Cross Off The To-Do List...

2008-11-01T17:46:00.000-07:00

Today Dave & I went to Tree House Kids (a furniture store in Cincinnati) to pick up our nursery furniture for Payton. Getting her crib/changing table home was no easy task, but we managed. The great thing about Tree House Kids furniture is that all of the cribs they sell convert from a crib, to a day bed to a full size bed. Her furniture is all set up in her room now...it looks really cute! I know I probably sound like a broken record, but the more we check off of our to-do list the more "official" everything seems!

http://www.treehousekidsco.com/

Pictures of Payton's nursery will be posted soon. I'm waiting until I complete a few finishing touches before posting. Keep checking back!

Happy Halloween!

2008-10-31T23:43:00.000-07:00

Today is Halloween and tonight my Mom & step-Dad had their annual Halloween bonfire/costume party. It was a great time! Dave dressed up as George Bush & I as Sara Palin (Dave wanted to be McCain, but all the McCain masks were sold out). So political figures was our "theme". It was fun dressing up and surprisingly I won third place for my costume!!! I must have done a decent job with my clothes (which included the notorious red blazer/glasses), hair and make-up! I was shocked at the number of people who told me I really DID look like Sara Palin - LOL!

I think and talk about Payton all the time, but I especially think about her around the holidays. I can’t wait for her to arrive and be able to share in the fun/dress up for Halloween!

Trick Or Treat!

2008-10-30T22:45:00.000-07:00

Ross (I mean - Cookie Monster)!

Tonight was Trick or Treat. My nephew, Ross dressed up as Cookie Monster. In honor of, Stacey made homemade chocolate cookies to pass out from Ross - they were awesome. Thank you Stacey!

Below are some add'l pictures of my neices & nephew...enjoy!

Alissa - princess

Carter - Spider

Chloe - OSU Cheerleader

Riley - fairy princess

Childbirth Classes - Complete!

2008-10-29T21:55:00.000-07:00

Tonight Dave & I completed our fourth and final childbirth class. The discussion was way more interesting than from previous weeks. We discussed what immediately happens after labor, breast/bottle feeding & general child safety tips. All of the information was extremely helpful. Most of my questions tonight centered around breastfeeding (i.e., how to know when you’re child is eating/getting enough milk, when you can “officially” start pumping, what brand of pump MVH recommended, etc.). Like usual, I think I embarrassed Dave. After a few questions, he said: “okay, no more questions from you (meaning me) or else we’re going to have to stay late”. The funniest part of the class was when Dave leaned over and whispered to me: “another breastfeeding question from you and I’m going to assume you’re going to be a boob for Halloween this year!” LOL!

I left class tonight feeling great – well educated. I’m now confident that Payton & I will be well taken care of at “The Valley” (as Julie always referred to MVH). Prior to taking our childbirth classes I was nervous. Nervous because I had no idea what to expect. My fears have slowly diminished (as have most of my questions). I’m comforted in knowing if I have a symptom or if I time my contractions I’ll know what “phase” I’m in and what to do - thanks to Julie!

Blah, Blah, Blah...

2008-10-22T22:47:00.000-07:00

I have to admit, our third childbirth class was rough. Tonight we covered c-sections, epidurals, and other pain medications administered during labor & delivery. Yes, this is all very important stuff, however it was difficult to pay attention. All I remember from the class was how many times Julie walked into the projector light and how many incomplete sentences she made. Don't get me wrong, Julie's nice and a great teacher...my mind just wasn't in it tonight. I was exhausted. Next Wednesday should be much better. Not only will it be our last class, but we''ll be discussing childbirth recovery, afterbirth care for Payton, PPD, etc.

Relax & Breathe...

2008-10-15T22:42:00.000-07:00

During tonight’s second childbirth class we learned relaxation/breathing techniques. It was interesting, yet a little scary. Along with Julie, another nurse from MVH, family beginnings (the natural birthing area) attended our class to help assist. She was nice, but a very serious woman. I guess when you deal with pregnant woman who have decided to forgo an epidural you better be serious, on your “A” game and have lots of ideas to help soon-to-be Mom’s get comfortable. After listening to her discuss the family birthing process, it further ensured me having an epidural was definitely the way I wanted to go!

Before learning some different techniques, Julie quizzed us over what we had learned thus far. If we answered a question correctly, we got a teething ring for Payton. Dave & I won two rings!

The breathing techniques were ok. My only concern is remembering them all and if I’ll really use them in labor. Dad’s in our class acted as our counters. They were told when Mom is through the 3rd/4th stage of labor we’ll only see/respond to those within a hula hoop distance of us. Therefore, when Dave was counting down (in my face) to help me practice the techniques it was hard to keep a straight face…I couldn’t help it, he was making me laugh.

The relaxation techniques/how-to's of labor comfort discussed in class included: positioning, music therapy, aromatherapy, focusing, breathing, massage, support, visualization/relaxation & heat/cold.

I’m all about bringing a small portable CD player to the hospital with us. Dave & I discussed bringing a few Dave Matthews CDs to help comfort and take my mind off the contractions. I also liked the idea of soaking in the jacuzzi tub, walking around, sitting/bouncing on a “birthing ball” or as some call it an exercise ball. Essentially anything that takes my mind of the pain, I’m down with!

Overall class was good, but truthfully it almost put me to sleep. At the end of class we moved to a different room so we could lay down, stretch out & relax. First, mom’s had to give the Dad’s a 2-minute massage to show them what we’d like/dislike during the labor process. Next, Dad’s tested out what they had learned from us. Dave picked a “relaxer tool” from Julie’s bag. In the bag, she had tennis balls, a pop can, handheld massager & even something that looked like a dog toy. Dave massaged my back with two tennis balls. I was shocked at how good they felt on my back. It was nice - I got about a 15-minute massage from Dave!

My First Baby Shower...

2008-10-12T20:23:00.000-07:00

Shower at DCC

Today my Mom, sister & Aunt hosted a baby shower for me at the Dayton Country Club. Everything was perfect! The room was decorated with some of Payton's nursery items from Restoration Hardware - Baby & Child. Each place setting on the table had a pink box with a little clear pacifier inside, a pink/brown name tag, pink napkin, & rattler. The centerpieces were cakes w/ brown icing and pink polka dots...they were adorable! Every detail was well precisely thought out (not that I expected anything less)!

Lunch was excellent! We had grilled chicken/salad/fruit. The presentation looked almost too good to eat!

After mingling and lunch we played a few games/activities. Since my Mom knows I'm not big on shower games she thought of just a few practical games even I'd be good at - LOL! The first activity was making Payton a bib. I thought this was such a cute idea. Everyone got a white bib and paint to decorate it however they wanted. They all turned out awesome! Next, we played the apple juice drinking game. The game where you fill up apple juice into a bottle to see who can drink it the fastest. My mother-in-law won! The last game was to predict what Payton will look like. Each table was given some baby/parenting magazines to cut out faces, eyes, noses, ears, etc. of what they think she's going to look like. They were all funny, but I could only pick one winner. The table with my Mom, my mother-in-law, Tanya, and both Grandmothers (Frantz/Borchers) won!

After the games were over we moved to the couches for gifts. Dave & I got A LOT of really nice gifts for Payton. Thank you to everyone who attended my shower and for the thoughtful gifts. I had a great time & hope you did as well. A VERY special thank you to my Mom/step-Dad for finishing my rocking horse. I was pleasantly surprised to see it painted and on display when I walked into the shower.

Table setup

Lunch

Stacey, Me & Mom

Rocking Horse I made at EKU

Childbirth 101...

2008-10-08T22:59:00.000-07:00

Tonight Dave & I had our first childbirth class (the first of four). I don't think Dave was super excited about going (the classes are 2.5 hours/every Wed. throughout October), but I was. I'm ready to learn as much as I can before Payton comes home. Our instructor's name was Julie. She was really nice, informative and a nurse at Miami Valley hospital. Tonight’s session covered labor/delivery.

One of my major fears regarding the delivery process is showing up at the hospital before it's time. I think it would be very embarrassing, however after tonight's class and a "cheat sheet" Julie passed out I'm more confident that won't happen. Julie taught us how to time our contractions and when to know if we're really having a contraction or Braxton hicks (aka hiccups as I accidentally called them in class – LOL!)

Dave teased me constantly throughout the entire class. I think I embarrassed him being vocal - answering almost all of Julie's questions and asking quite a few of my own. I'm sure I looked like a "teacher’s pet", but oh well. Over the past 5.5 months, I've read quite a few pregnancy books, websites, and pamphlets and still have a lot of unanswered questions. Educating myself has been the best way to ease my fears/anticipations.

Class ended by us watching a video of a real birth...it was AMAZING! Next class we're discussing relaxation techniques. Dave joked, saying we should attend even if we weren't pregnant - LOL. Well, I'm off to do my homework for our next class! More updates on our classes later.

6th Month Checkup...

2008-10-07T20:18:00.000-07:00

Today was my 6th month check-up/Q&A with Dr. Horlacher. It's always nice entering into his office - it's like one big family! Everyone there is SO super nice. Apparently some of the nurses REALLY like Dave too - LOL! My cousin, Mandy & Dr. Horlacher informed Dave that the nurses think he's cute! Needless to say, Dave is loving all the attention - LOL! I got a kick out of it. I keep telling Dave "act like you've been there before", but his head has already doubled in size (too late) - LOL!

So far Dave has come to every Dr's appointment with me. I've told him several times that he doesn't need to, but he insists. I think it's sweet, it shows how much he loves Payton & I and wants to make sure we're both ok.

Dr. Horlacher said according to Payton's ultrasound pictures she's doing great. He predicts Payton will be around 6 ½ - 7 lbs. I guess I better buy a few more newborn clothes, huh?! Her heartbeat is still strong - 156 beats/minute (same as our first appointment). My next appointment is Nov. 4...when I'll have my glucose test. After that appt. I'll start seeing Dr. Horlacher every two weeks (instead of every month), which means I'm edging closer to the finish line! :)

The Interviewing Process Is Over!

2008-10-06T21:49:00.000-07:00

Tonight Dave & I met Tammy McCloud, an at home daycare provider who my sister recommended to us (she also takes care of my nephew Ross). Recently Dave & I been interviewing potential daycare centers/at home providers to watch Patyon while we're at work. I can honestly say, it was a more difficult task than I had originally anticipated. I didn't realize the emotion I'd feel trying to find the perfect place/person to watch our little girl while we couldn't be with her.

After meeting Miss Tammy (as the kids call her), Dave & I both knew she was "the one". She is such a sweet lady and REALLY cares for the children she provides for. As we introduced ourselves, she had a upbeat and friendly personality that put me right to ease. Entering through her front door and into her kitchen she had pictures on the wall of all the kids she currently watches or has watched through the years (this said something to me - it showed me much she LOVES her kids/job). Tammy, handed us a packet of information (i.e., contract/rules), took us on a tour of her house and brought us into her living room to relax on the couch so we could ask any questions, go over the packet of information, and so she could give us some background information about herself. Tammy has such a great personality & sense of humor. Before we knew it, 2 hours had passed! Once I thought we asked all of our questions, I asked Dave if he had anything else or wanted to think it over...he replied "no". He was ready to put our deposit down (to hold Payton's spot until March) and so was I. I KNOW Payton will be happy there and I'm thrilled she'll be around her cousin, Ross!

PINK

2008-10-04T22:09:00.000-07:00

Today was an exhausting but productive day. Thanks to Dave, my Mom & my step-Dad, our nursery is now painted a light shade of pink. Deciding on the right shade was a bit overwhelming (there are SO many different shades of pink and pink drys much differently on walls compared to how it looks on a swatch - just an fyi for anyone getting ready to paint a pink room). In the end, our nursery turned out just as I had envisioned. Payton's room is really starting to come together. Currently we are waiting for the rest of her bedding to arrive (it's on back order until mid October) and her furniture will arrive sometime in mid November. Again, I can't thank Dave, my Mom and Bill enough for their hard work. It was a long day.

In addition to painting the nursery, my Mom began painting a wood rocking horse I made in college. At EKU I took a class called Crafts for Kids (yes, this was a real class - LOL). Our final exam project was to create a rocking horse from start to finish. At the time, I made it just for the grade...I would have NEVER thought 7 years later I'd be adding it to my daughter's nursery! While Dave was dusting it off (prior to painting it), he saw I had signed the bottom of the horse "Natalie L. Frantz - '2001". He teased me for including my middle initial and I noticed I even put a fancy "z" on the end of Frantz - LOL! In addition, why I put a " ' " before 2001 I know grammatically doesn't make sense, but I remember back in the day it was my way of distinguishing it was something special to me. I know it may seem silly, but this horse means a lot to me and I hope it's something Payton will always cherish.

Due to the amount of detail the horse entailed to paint my Mom brought it home to finish. I can't wait to see it when she's done! I will post pictures soon.

It's Official!

2008-10-02T18:40:00.000-07:00

Dave & I have decided to name our little girl:
Payton Caroline Schindler

Parent's Guide To Raising Girls...

2008-09-28T21:28:00.000-07:00

This morning Dave & I went to the bookstore. For some reason we both love going there. I think it’s the peaceful atmosphere or maybe it's that being surrounded by books makes us feel smart(er), who knows?! LOL. Regardless, stopping by today had a purpose – finding a name book. For the past few weeks, Dave & I have been trying to think of the perfect name (one that we both LOVE). I think we’ve found “the one”, but I wanted to look through a few books to know ALL my options before officially deciding. Once we entered the bookstore I nearly lost Dave. I went my way, he went his…only to find him a short time later with his head engulfed in a book called The Everything Parent's Guide To Raising Girls. I couldn’t help but to laugh - it was sweet! Ever since we found out we were having a girl I think he’s been wondering “what to do with one”. Dave is such a guy’s guy, so raising a girl will be a whole new world for him. I’m no parenting guru, but the best/only advice I’ve given him is "love her unconditionally and the rest will fall into place."

…we left Borders with The Expected Father series and 50,001 Best Baby Names. Wish us luck!

Busy Bees...

2008-09-27T14:23:00.000-07:00

Dave & I have been busy getting the nursery ready for the arrival of our daughter. The process of cleaning the nursery was long/draining, but we eventually we found a place for everything. Last week, Dave painted the baseboards, closet doors, inside of the closet, main door and ceiling a fresh coat of white paint. Although this wasn’t his idea (surprise, surprise!), I thought touching everything up a bit would really make the room look more “finished”.

As a shower gift, my Mom & sister graciously bought us the bedding we wanted from Restoration Hardware – Baby & Child. It should be arriving any day – I can’t wait! This Saturday is painting day. We’re going to paint “her” room pale pink to match her bedding/décor. The furniture we ordered from Tree House Kids in Cincy should be arriving soon (early/mid Nov.). Everything is really coming along and I’m really looking forward to having the nursery complete. It will be such a wonderful/relaxing feeling!

Well that’s all I know for now…stay tuned for future updates.

Pink/Chocolate Brown bedding from "Restoration Hardware - Baby & Child"

Carter Joshua Napier Has Arrived!!!

2008-09-23T06:22:00.000-07:00

Yesterday my cousin Mandy gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. Carter Joshua Napier was born at 5:29 PM and weighed 7 lbs. 5 oz. After work Dave & I joined Mandy, her husband - Josh, my sister, Ryan, Ross and a few other family members at Miami Valley hospital to meet the new addition to our family. He's absolutely precious! I was surprised, but thrilled to see Mandy looking great and acting like her usual self (I hope I'm just as lucky).

Yesterday was also deja vu of what's to come in my near future...labor (four months to be exact)! As I was holding Carter, I was trying to figure out who he most resembled. I also couldn't help but to think about our little girl and who she'll look like. I wonder if she'll have my brown hair or Dave's blonde? Will she have brown eyes or blue? Will she be short or tall like her Daddy? As the countdown starts to dwindle...I feel myself getting more and more excited to meet her!

Carter Joshua Napier

Mandy, Carter & Dr. Horlacher (the best doctor in the world!)

The whole Napier family!

The Karate Kid/Girl...

2008-09-12T22:39:00.000-07:00

Tonight while laying in bed, watching tv/surfing the internet Dave got to feel and see our little girl move for the first time. It was cool! Yes, I had felt her kicking and moving around several times before, but it was even more exciting to share the moment with Dave. We watched her kicking and punching around for about 30 minutes. I guess you could say it was our Friday night entertainment - LOL.

"I Hope You Like the Color of Your Shirt"

2008-09-12T19:28:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was one of the best days of my life. Meeting/seeing our child for the first time was absolutely priceless! The day started by Dave putting on a stripped blue short sleeve shirt and I, a three quarter length v-neck pink shirt...I wonder what we were both hinting - LOL.

We arrived at Dr. Horlacher's office early for a change, it was like Christmas in September and we wanted to be on time. After sitting in the waiting room for about 10-15 minutes (watching the Today Show covering the anniversary of the 9/11 attacks), my name was called. Carmela (who I called Carmen throughout the whole appointment - oops!) took us to room #2 where the ultrasound equipment was setup. She began by measuring the baby, showing us where the head, feet, eyes, and stomach were. I started crying. I couldn't help it - it was one of the most beautiful sights, it was our child. Next, Carmela said "I hope you like the color of your shirt" - you're having a GIRL! It was like a chill raced through my body...I was ecstatic! I looked over at Dave and we just smiled at each other. He was thrilled too.

Most men (and Dave is no exception), have always dreamed of having a son. He imagined himself coaching little league, teaching him how to shoot a basketball and how to throw a spiral. I know Dave has constantly joked about only having a son, but after seeing our little girl and viewing the ultrasound pictures of her I knew he was sincerely happy.

Dave says he'll now be outnumbered in our house, but he's wrong...it's now three to two!!! (We can't forget about our boys - Oscar/Rudi.)

2008-09-11T22:32:00.000-07:00

It's a GIRL!!!

Side view of baby Schindler

Baby Schindler waving hello (I LOVE this picture!)

Up close/side view of baby Schindler's face

"How Far Along Are You?"

2008-09-08T20:46:00.000-07:00

Today while shopping in the kids section at TJ Maxx for children's books I FINALLY got asked the question: "How far along are you?"

I know this might seem strange, but deep down I got so excited (mainly b/c no one has been able to tell I'm pregnant except for close friends/family who we've told). Instantly I replied, 20 weeks! I then proceeded to inform this complete stranger that I find out find out the gender of our baby on Thursday morning. I know I've never been shy, but I certainly didn't take myself for the kind of person who'd tell someone their life story at first glance. Oh well, I'm an excited soon-to-be Mom. I'm also a person just trying to stay sane and busy for the next two days. I know it's never good to waste your life away, but I'm dying for the moment I get to see our child for the first time!

Thursday Dave & I are taking a vacation day. After our appointment we're spending some "QT" with each other to enjoy and process what we'll get to see/hear at our Dr's appointment. We plan to get some lunch and do a little baby shopping! In the evening we're meeting our parents (the Parker's, Frantz's & Schindler's) + the Bales family at El Toro (our favorite Mexican restaurant), to share the gender news. Stay posted for the results!!!

Almost Half Way There...

2008-09-01T21:02:00.000-07:00

Today marks my 19th week. I can't believe it...I'm almost half way through my pregnancy. Currently our baby is about the size of a softball – measuring six inches and weighing roughly eight ounces.

This week our baby will receive a protective substance called “vernix”. If you’ve ever wondered what the white/greasy stuff was called on a newborn baby – that’s it! It’s created to protect our baby’s sensitive skin from the amniotic fluid. Without it, our baby would look like a 400 year old wrinkled woman at birth - LOL!

Sunday Dave & I celebrated our 7 year anniversary of the day we met. In honor of, we went back to the place where we first met… the Alterfest! It was fun seeing old friends and playing blackjack with my family. Good times!

Yesterday marked another memorable event…I bought my first (and hopefully only) pair of maternity jeans! Thankfully the Gap outlet made the process less dreadful. Originally when I looked for a pair at the regular Gap I about died b/c they were $80! I’m not trying to sound like el cheap-o, but who in the world wants to spend $80 for a pair of ugly elastic pants they’ll never wear after being pregnant?! Not me! Thanks to the Gap outlet I found a pair for $1.99…what a steal!!! :)

Hanging out at the Alterfest - 19 weeks.

Blogging Hiatus...

2008-08-24T19:47:00.000-07:00

I'm sorry to all my regular blog readers. I've been slacking keeping my journal up to date. Over the past couple of weeks, I’ve been staying busy spending time attending Dave's baseball games (Go Wolves!), hanging out with my family – especially my sister, her husband and my adorable nephew, watching pre-season Bengals games (although I'm not quite sure why…haha!), catching up with the Davis sisters who just recently made a trip back to OH, and relaxing at the pool with the Steiner's religiously on Saturday afternoons. Dave & I are really bummed that our summer is coming to an end and that there will be no more Settlers Walk pool days until next year (when it will be Dave & Natalie +1)!

Thank you to everyone who has either posted comments and/or talked to me 1-on-1 regarding my journal. It really means a lot knowing people are reading and enjoy knowing how baby Schindler & I are doing. Since posting “DMB Day” lots of people have requested I add more pictures – I will do my best.

Lots of things have changed since my last entry. I’m now in my 18th week and feeling great (besides the common growing pains). Our baby is now measuring 5 ½ inches in length and weighs 5 ounces! Our child has mastered the art of yawning, is more conscious of sounds and has even begun hiccupping and swallowing – lots of new skills! Body fat has begun to form and will continue until birth. I know all this may seem small in the grand scheme of things, but it’s amazing for a soon-to-be Mom like me!

DMB Day!

2008-08-05T01:30:00.000-07:00

Today was a great day - busy but fun! This morning we had another appointment with Dr. Horlacher and although it was just routine check-up, excitedly we got to hear our baby's heartbeat again. It didn't take long to locate it this time - it was incredible to hear how much stronger/louder it seemed than before. Dr. Horlacher announced the baby's heartbeat was 162 beats/minute. Jokingly, he said GIRL!!! I know it's a myth to believe when a baby's heartbeat is between 140-160 it's a girl and below 140 it's a boy, but it's exciting to think about and guess what we might be having!

The past couple times we've seen Dr. Horlacher I've enjoyed asking him random questions I've learned through reading my "What to Expect" book/daily emails (although I'm quite sure he doesn't feel the same - lol). Today I asked "Is it true if I measure three inches below my belly button I can feel my uterus?" He slightly laughed (implying the answer was no). He was probably thinking:

"This girl is crazy. Where does she come up with this stuff?!"
"She NEEDS to stop reading the internet!!!"
"Why does she always ask so many questions?"

Truthfully I don't ask Dr. Horlacher strange questions to annoy him (although I'm sure he probably thinks so), it's mainly because I'm extremely curious b/c so much going on inside my body and it's a new and exciting world to me. However, because Dr. Horlacher wanted to make sure he was telling me the truth he measured and sure enough I was right. Three inches exactly!!! The great thing about Dr. Horlacher is his sense of humor...he jokes with Dave & I a lot. Besides the fact Dr. Horlacher comes highly recommended, he's such an easy person to talk to which is why I'm so comfortable with him delivering our child and taking care of me during my pregnancy. My 20th week appointment is on September 11. It will be incredible not only to know the gender of our baby, but to also be able to see him/her for the very FIRST time!!!

Tonight Dave & I went to the Dave Matthews Band concert at Riverbend in Cincinnati. It was perfect timing - according to "What To Expect" our baby can hear my voice and loud noises (i.e., dogs barking, etc)...so technically I guess you could say it was our child's first DMB concert - LOL!

Prior to the concert we tailgated with one of my best friends, Jessica and her husband Kevin. It's always a blast tailgating/hanging out with other DMB fans before entering the concert. When I think of summer, I think of two things - laying out & Dave concerts. The concert was unbelievable, one of the best shows we've EVER seen! To top it off, our seats were incredible. Dave randomly found tickets for us on eBay in the "Pit" section (which are located in front of the front row)! The set list was awesome!!! Originally DMB scheduled to play 20 songs, however when the crowd started chanting "Halloween" he added the song to the set list to make it 21. It was AMAZING! For some of you less die hard DMB fans, Dave rarely plays Halloween, so it was an awesome experience to witness. Ironically, about 3/4 of the way through the song I felt our baby move for the very first time. It felt like butterflies fluttering around in my stomach - I will never forget the feeling or the moment!

Dave & I having fun at the DMB concert!

The Dave Matthews Band - view from our seats

Dave singing #41

Riverbend Music Center Seating Chart.

Dave Matthews Band set list from Riverbend concert - 8.5.08

Mommy on the Grow...

2008-07-29T21:40:00.000-07:00

Recently I've been feeling my clothes getting tighter and/or not being able to fit into them. I'm shocked at how fast my body is changing, and realize I'm officially a Mommy on the grow! Seeing my belly grow is such a cool experience, and as much as I love being pregnant it's a bit sad that I have to hang up all my "regular" clothes (not knowing if I'll be back in them one day). Thankfully this transition has been easier due to my sister. She's been great at telling me which stores I can get the best maternity deals at and even works with a friend (who just had twins girls) that has offered to loan me all of her maternity clothes until our baby is born. I'm so grateful to her! This will make life more comfy and one less thing for us to buy.

Along with my clothes, my shoes have changed. (I don't think I even need to write this, but let me preface this paragraph by saying...) Everyone who knows me, knows I'm the type of girl who loves wearing stilettos!!! Shocker, I know - LOL. I bought my first pair in '01 and haven't wanted to take them off since. I love everything about them - the height, the look & the feeling I have when wearing them. Needless to say, if I could wear them everyday I would. I learned at an early age "when you look good, you feel good" and my heels do just that for me. I know for some of you this may not be a monumental event, however this is BIG time for me. "Here comes the kicker" (quote by DP - LOL!), last week I bought my first pair of wedge heels AND a pair of flats! Granted the flats make me feel like I'm 4'2", but they're comfy and comfort is what I'm going for these days.

Then & Now...

2008-07-17T19:04:00.000-07:00

On July 17, 2004 (four years ago from today) Dave & I got married. I know it's cliché to say, but it feels like just yesterday when we were walking down the aisle and saying our "I do's" (although I'm sure if you ask him he'd give you some smart response - LOL). It's difficult on a day like today not to reflect on how far we've come and where the future is taking us...

Pre-pregnancy Dave & I lived our lives in the fast lane - taking spontaneous trips, attending unlimited sports events/concerts, & hanging out with family/friends. We loved our life, being with each other and creating endless memories.

Soon things will change. I hate that word - "change", probably because I think it's one of the most misunderstood words and believe people associate it in their minds as being a bad thing. To me, it just means we're growing up and moving on to the next phase of our life. We'll soon be creating a new type of memories - family memories! Many say there is nothing more rewarding than being a parent and I couldn't agree more. Though I've only been pregnant for twelve weeks I love this tiny person (who I haven't even met yet) more than anything in this world.

Under Construction - 1st Trimester

2008-07-13T15:10:00.000-07:00

One trimester down, two to go! I know some pregnant woman maybe thrilled to get out of their first trimester, but I really can't complain. Yes, I had the common fatigue, tenderness (you know where), & food aversions, but for the most part I felt great. So far I've loved every minute of being pregnant and knowing there's a miracle growing inside of me.

Our baby has grown & developed so much over the past twelve weeks. Most of the baby's organs are fully formed and our baby is now measuring approximately three inches (about the size of a peach). Such developements have already occured including the heart, lungs, head, arms, legs, hair follicles, finger & toe nails, as well as the vocal cords, just to name a few. Currently the bone marrow is making white blood cells to one day help our child fight off infections. Pretty cool, huh?! What to Expect says the second trimester is the "maintenance phase"...I'm just hoping it goes as smoothly as the first!

Myths, Myths & More Myths...

2008-07-11T23:08:00.000-07:00

My last journal entry got me thinking about how many myths there are surronding the prediction of an unborn child's gender. I've read and heard so many different theories that made me wonder what's really true?! Some theories range from a Drain-O test (mixing a pregnant woman's urine with Drain-O resulting in color change: pink = girl; blue = boy) to the Chinese calendar prediction (mom's date of birth + baby's month of conception will spell out boy/girl). However, no matter what method you choose there's always a fifty percent chance it will be right. Below is an excerpt from an article that exposes some of the most common gender myths:

Myth: Carrying your baby "high" means you will have a boy; carrying "low" means you will have a girl.
Reality: Lots of factors go into how you look when you are pregnant, including the age of the fetus as well as their position, size, and the mother's overall body shape. If she is short waisted, for example, her pregnancy may look different from a woman who is long waisted. But nothing about the shape has to do with the baby's sex.

Myth: Suspending a gold ring from a string over a pregnant woman's belly can predict the sex depending on the way it swings -- back and forth for a boy, in a circular motion for a girl.
Reality: There is nothing about the gender of a baby that will influence the pull of gravity. But some folks believe that, much like a Ouija board, the direction the ring swings may be influenced by the thoughts of the person holding the string -- and they will always be right 50% of the time.

Myth: If the hair on your legs grows faster during pregnancy it's a boy; if it grows slower, it's a girl.
Reality: The logic here is that because testosterone may influence hair growth, carrying a boy -- who would ostensibly have more testosterone than a girl -- will do the same. There isn't enough hormone present in a fetus to have any significant hormonal impact on the mother's body, let alone cause the hair on her legs to grow.

Myth: If you crave sour or salty foods, it's a boy; sweets, it's a girl.
Reality: Although doctors aren't totally sure what causes a woman to crave certain foods during pregnancy, most universally agree the baby's sex isn't one of them. There is nothing about carrying a boy or a girl that would influence a woman's taste buds.

Myth: If a pregnant woman's urine is a dull color, it's a girl; if it's a bright color, it's a boy.
Reality: The only thing that influences the color of a pregnant woman's urine is how much fluid she consumes -- if she's a little dehydrated, it will be a darker color; if she's drinking a lot of water, it will be lighter.

The only ways to know a hundred percent if you're having a boy/girl are: Ultrasound, Amniocentesis, chorionic villus sampling, & DNA blood or urine screen. So try and keep all this information in mind next time you try to predict the gender of your baby by breaking out a bottle of Drain-O - LOL!

"I Hear Two Heartbeats!"

2008-07-08T17:46:00.000-07:00

This morning Dave & I had an appointment with Dr. Horlacher to hear our baby's heartbeat. Dr. Horlacher is such a great guy (and also a UD alum, so he got an extra point in Dave's book - LOL!).

The appointment began by Dr. Horlacher placing a gel like solution on my stomach and using a tool called a doppler to begin searching for the baby's heartbeat. The doppler looked like a wand w/ a speaker on the end of it. When Dr. Horlacher said “I hear two heartbeats”, I thought I was going to loose my breakfast. Luckily he clarified that one was mine & the other was the baby's. Shhheewww! Twins run in Dave’s family so having two wasn’t completely out of the question.

After calming down from the rush, we finally heard our child’s heartbeat. It was faint at first but once he was able to better locate the baby, you could hear the heartbeat loud and clear. It felt so “official”!

Our child’s heartbeat was 156 beats/minute. Some would say 156 = boy, however according to Dr. Horlacher it’s too early to tell. He said every baby’s heart beats fast when they are young (and who knows, maybe the heartbeat shot up after I turned ghostly white from the possibility of having twins?! LOL.)

Overall, our appointment was light-hearted & amazing. I’ve never looked forward to Dr.’s appointments as much I do now. There is always something new to experience and look forward to which makes me excited for future appointments. Our next appointment is on August 5 for a check-up and on September 11 we find out the gender of our baby. We can't wait!!! In the meantime, keep checking back for more updates.

"A Picture Is Worth a Million Words"...

2008-07-05T18:21:00.000-07:00

Recently I ran across a picture of my friend Kristen's little baby girl online and thought it was AMAZING! She looked so precious, like an Ann Geddes picture. To my surprise, one of my AOPi sisters from EKU started her own photography company in which this picture was a product of. Cilla lived a couple doors down from me in Telford Hall on our sorority floor. After viewing Cilla's work, I knew I wanted and could trust her to capture one of the happiest, most special moments in our lives! Cilla calls her work "perfectly imperfect", but her work is anything but imperfect. I LOVE the way she captures people in the moment & so real.

Kristen & Keith's little girl, Addison Kay Parke

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Seven More Days & Counting...

2008-07-01T19:55:00.000-07:00

A week from today Dave & I have our second Dr's appointment. We're SO excited!!! During this appointment we'll get to hear our baby's heartbeat for the VERY first time. I'm excited, yet not quite sure what to expect. Everyone I've talked with says I'll cry so I'm definitely going to pack my pockets with tissues. There's an old wivestale regarding the baby's heartbeat. If the heartbeat is above 140 it's a girl, if below it means you're having boy. It will be interesting to hear how things go and to see if the oldwives tale will hold true! Either way, I'm thrilled to be carrying our baby and hope for health before the preference of sex.

100% Chance of Showers...

2008-06-30T18:26:00.000-07:00

Everyone book your calendars - shower dates have been set. Thank you to my Mom, Linda Parker & Jessica Steiner for throwing baby showers for me. I am really looking forward to them & seeing everyone! Due to the large number of holidays around my due date (Halloween - New Years Day) it was decided having the showers a little early would be best. I hope everyone can make it!

Oct. 12 - Mom's "family" baby shower/Nov. 16 - Jessica's "friend" baby shower

*Invitations will follow once dates get closer.

Making Room For the New...

2008-06-29T17:16:00.000-07:00

This weekend Dave & I began to make room for the baby. Unfortunately the major drawback to our house is the lack of storage space, so we figured out some ways to make room for us, our belongings, the baby, & baby items we'll soon need. Good thing I've been watching so much HGTV over the past couple of years, it has really helped me with my organizational skills and finding creative ways to store all our things. Today I began by cleaning out our bedroom while Dave started cleaning out the room that will become the nursery. I wanted to get a jump start on the project before I become too uncomfortable and while my energy level is good. I also thought it would be easier on us, so once we find out what we're having (boy/girl) we can begin the fun part - painting, buying furniture, and decorating the room our new arrival!

While cleaning out the "green room" (as we call our spare bedroom) it was fun looking at old pictures from my college days at EKU. I began remembering all the fun times I had. Parties at 13 Healthcliff Dr. (my old apartment w/ Jenn), Saturday/Sunday afternoon comfort lunches at Casa Cafe, my AOPi girls, "LONG" talks with the Davis sisters, watching unlimited Lifetime movies, Telford Hall & of course T-bombs!!! There is so much I miss about good ol' Richmond, KY but I now realize how much I've grown since. My life is different and I can honestly say I feel complete. I have an awesome husband who supports and loves me unconditionally and a precious baby on the the way. I feel so blessed!

I Don’t Remember Craving That...

2008-06-22T13:40:00.000-07:00

My appetite has changed a little since becoming pregnant. I haven't had any "cravings" (yet), however I read those will kick into overdrive during my second trimester (four more weeks to go!). There are a couple of foods I now like that I didn't used to care for such as pizza & chocolate. I know it's almost un-American not to have liked the two, but they just weren't my favs…and now I can't go a week without them! Besides the slight change in my diet (pizza & chocolate), I've been eating as healthy as I possibly can. I primarily try to eat turkey, grilled chicken, salad, whole grain cereal, skim milk, fruit & veggies. As delicious as that may sound, I read earlier in my pregnancy that “eating healthy is the best gift you can give you unborn child” - so that's what I've been trying to do. Although at times it difficult to eat, I know it's the ONLY thing that will make me feel better. I just have to keep reminding myself, even though I may not be hungry someone else is!

What in the World?!

2008-06-19T21:38:00.000-07:00

I always thought it would have been interesting to know what music, television shows, books, pop culture, & fashion was popular when my Mom was pregnant with me. I guess that’s what’s inspiring this entry. I want our child to know what’s “cool” right now as he/she is about to arrive into the world. (Ok, and maybe a little bit so when our child goes back to look at pictures of his/her Mom & Dad we can say “see, such in such WAS popular back in the day.” Haha!) Growing up, I think every child teases their parents about that type of stuff – and I was certainly no exception. I remember teasing my parents about their hairstyles and what they did to mine. Thanks again for the mushroom cut – LOL. I also remember teasing them about their choice of fashion, however I now know that WAS the style back in the 70’s. I guess I think by writing, not only this excerpt but this journal it will reinforce to our child that Dave & I were cool once upon a time (or at least that’s what I’d like to think). So anyway, here’s the world according to Natalie…popular type of music – R&B/Rap (i.e., Justin Timberlake, Fergie, & Rihanna, however my favorite is (and has been since h.s.) The Dave Matthews Band. Television Shows – Reality tv is ultra popular right now. Shows like American Idol, Bachelor/Bachelorette, The Hills & Real World have exploded! Personally, my favorite reality tv show is The Hills. Gotta love Lauren trying to make it in LA's fashion world, partying with her friends and trying to find a good guy all at the same time. Books – Since I haven’t heard of any of the top 5 bestsellers (and since I’m a biography junky), the most popular non-fiction books at the time are: Big Russ and Me by: Tim Russert, What Happened by Scott McClellan, The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch, The Audacity of Hope by Barack Obama and Audition by Barbara Walters. Pop culture - The Sex & the City movie just came out (it was AWESOME!), Mariah Carey made the comeback of her life and more celebrities are either pregnant or went to rehab this year than I can count. Fashion - black leggings, free flowing/patterned shirts have come back in style (yes, it makes it a great time to be pregnant!). Big purses, layered necklaces, over-sized sunglasses, and scarves are the must-have accessories.

Big Girls Don't Cry...

2008-06-18T11:24:00.000-07:00

Today I think I'm going to change my middle name to cry baby. Natalie "Cry Baby" Schindler. It has a ring to it - LOL. Recently I've cried when I can't decide what I want for dinner, after the elimination on the Bachelorette, sappy Oprah or Extreme Makeover: Home Edition shows & today when Dave left for just a three day business trip! What in the world is wrong with me?! HORMONES!!! What to Expect says it's normal, but is it?!

The Name Game...

2008-06-16T19:06:00.000-07:00

So far thinking about names we BOTH like has been an interesting topic at the Schindler household. Dave likes all the traditional boy names such as Dave, Dave & Dave (wonder why?! Haha...). I'm not sure the thought has crossed his mind yet that there’s a 50/50 shot we could potentially be having a girl – LOL. I, on the other hand, like baby names like: (BOYS) Cole & Preston; (GIRLS) Kate & Hayden. Approximately 32 weeks to go, so we still have some time to compromise on a name. Stay tuned for what we decide!

Father's Day...

2008-06-15T07:23:00.000-07:00

Today was a great day! Not only did we get to spend time with my father-in-law during lunch and dinner with my Dad, but everyone made Dave feel really special (showering him with Father’s Day cards & gifts). Dave’s Mom surprised us with some books for the baby. It was such a thoughtful gift! Some of the books had “Mommy & Daddy” in the titles, which made it feel all the more real. Joan also bought some of Dave’s favorite books as a child (i.e., “The Pokey Little Puppy” & “Goodnight Moon”). I can’t wait to start reading to our child!

A Room Full of Bellies...

2008-06-10T18:27:00.000-07:00

Our first Dr’s visit on May 21, 2008 was nothing short of comical. We met with nurse Patty at Dr. Horlacher’s office at Miami Valley Hospital. She was so nice and provided us with some really important information. After we answered all of her questions, asked all of ours & went over the packets of information provided Patty asked what we thought we were having. Simultaneously, Dave & I responded: “Boy – Dave/Girl – Natalie” – LOL. Out of courtesy, I asked what she thought and without hesitating she said girl. Immediately Dave responded: “I think we’re going to need a new nurse” – LOL. After I explained to her the majority of the Schindler’s are males she changed her mind to boy. Thank God, now Dave can sleep peacefully at night!

Due date: Jan. 29th

This Just In...

2008-06-10T18:25:00.000-07:00

Telling our family the big news was one of the happiest days of my life. Dave & I went over to share the news with my Dad & step-Mom (Mike & Tanya Frantz). We walked into their house, sat down for what felt like eternity (which in reality was only about 10 minutes) when I blurted out “I’M PREGNANT!” My Dad’s face & reaction was great – he didn’t believe me. He said: “REALLY??” After I confirmed the good news (and ensured them it wasn’t some April fools joke) they were thrilled. Tanya kept saying “This is SO cool!” But, I’ll never forget the moment my Dad & I locked our tear-filled eyes because I could feel the excitement, love and joy without him saying a word.

My Dad & step-Mom (Mike and Tanya)

Next, we went to my Mom & step-Dad’s house (Linda & Bill Parker). It was Mom’s birthday and we were heading over there for dinner. We couldn’t think of a better time to tell them they would be Grandparents (again)! Dave & I put one of the positive pregnancy tests into a gift bag and wrapped it. Her reaction to our gift was PRICELESS because she couldn’t figure out what it was! After a couple of minutes of staring at the test, Bill yelled: “I know what it is!!!” Everyone laughed. I told her to put on her reading glasses so she could read the wording on the test “Pregnant/Not Pregnant”, but that still didn’t help. She finally took a stab at it and guessed: “Is it a nail file??” At this point we were all hysterically laughing! I informed her that Dave & I were expecting. Mom was ECSTATIC!!! She busted out yelling/screaming and smiling ear to ear throughout her birthday dinner. Later she said it was the BEST birthday present!

My Mom & step-Dad (Linda and Bill)

Later, the same evening we went to my in-laws (Dave & Joan Schindler) to tell them a baby was on the way. Once we broke the news, they couldn’t have been happier. Dave’s Dad joked about Dave having chest pains because he found out he was going to be the father (it was really because he bruised his chest playing basketball), but it was funny – LOL.

The Day the Strip Turned Positive...

2008-06-10T18:23:00.000-07:00

It was Sunday, May 18, 2008 when Dave & I officially got the news. I got up early that morning and felt a little “funny” so decided to take a pregnancy test. To our surprise we were pregnant!!! At the time I didn’t know there were no such things as “false positives” so I took TWO more tests! I must admit it took a while for the shock to wear off (especially for Dave) but we were thrilled to find out a baby (our baby) was arriving into our lives & would change us in such a positive way we could never imagine yet…

I'm Fashionably Late...

2008-06-10T18:19:00.000-07:00

Interestingly enough, I was never “late”. In fact, I was about SEVEN days early when I discovered I was pregnant. I later found out, at my first Dr’s appointment it was because my HCG levels were so high I was four weeks pregnant when the plus sign was revealed.